This question—”How do I know if I’m on the right path in life?”—is a common one. I’ve certainly wondered this myself, and I’m sure there are people reading this who are asking themselves this question right now.
The intent behind this question is beautiful. If you’re asking yourself this question, it means you’re wanting to take the reigns of your life and be more purposeful in it. We love that.
But I believe the very phrasing of this question is deeply flawed, and ultimately renders it impossible to answer with clarity.
In this episode, I walk through my critique and offer an alternative question! A question that’s more expansive and ultimately more useful.
Key Episode Takeaways:
Shift Your Question: Instead of asking if you're on the "right path”, ask yourself what you want in life. This simple change opens up possibilities and allows for a more fulfilling exploration.
Define Your Wants: Take the opportunity to define what you want in life now. Use tools like the Wheel of Life or the 10-Year Plan to clarify your goals and values.
Find What Works for You: Exploring your desires can be intimidating but it can also be fun! Find the process that feels exciting to you and engage other people as you wish.
Measure Your Progress: Regularly assess your progress towards your vision using a simple 1-10 scale. This allows you to adjust and ensure you're moving in a direction that aligns with your desires.
An Ongoing Process: This isn’t a question you ask once and then move on—or something you only ask in a crisis or when in doubt. It’s a question you should continually ask yourself and build on.
If you got any new insights from this episode—or if it’s helped you clarify next steps you can take—I’d love to hear your thoughts. Leave a comment or send me a note!
And if you believe this episode can help someone in your life, I encourage you to share it with them.
- Elliot
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